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Father Allan
Fenix is an American
Catholic diocesan priest
currently serving in his
native land, the
Philippines. His
work first appeared
on RNJ in 2007, and
we're delighted to
welcome him back
after a 5 year
hiatus.
In 2012, he published his
first book, a collection
of some of his best
reflections appearing on
RNJ and also titled, A
Few Minutes with Father.
Father
Allan
has a global following
and a down to earth
perspective on the
challenges we all face
as Catholic
Christians. He is
a veteran SWL and an
avid DX'er.
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A Few Minutes with Father:
2022
Meditations on Our Life as
Catholic Christians
By Father Allan Fenix |
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PIT
STOP
SUNDAY
Every Sunday
that
comes brings with it its
own unique form of
amazement. After just a
brief respite of seven
Sundays in Ordinary
Time, February 22 is Ash
Wednesday, the beginning
again of the 40-day run
of the Lenten
Season. The Seventh
Sunday in the Ordinary
Time, with the gospel
reading from Matthew 5:
38-48, is a pit stop
before the “deluge
galore” of the Lenten
Season.
If we have been
paying
attention to the gospel
readings well for the
past six weeks of the
Ordinary Time, we have
discovered that all of
them are interconnected
and feeding into the
Seventh Sunday gospel
reading, the final
Sunday
before the Lenten
Season.
Let me, then,
walk you
through it . For reasons
of limited space,
brevity and conciseness,
I
abridged my reflection
merely on three
particular Sundays- the
Second, Fourth and
Fifth.
Matthew
5: 38-42:
You
have heard that it was
said; Eye for eye, and
tooth for tooth. But I
tell you, do not resist
an evil person. If
anyone slaps you on the
right cheek, turn to
them the other cheek
also. And if anyone
wants
to sue you and take your
shirt, hand over your
coat as well. If
anyone forces you to go
one mile, go with them
two miles. Give to the
one who asks you, and do
not turn away from the
one who want to
borrow from you, is the
concrete example of one
of the beatitude-
Blessed are the meek,
for they shall inherit
the earth. (4th Sunday)
To be meek is
to be
gentle, humble, lowly.
They are the gentle who
do not assert
themselves over others
in order to further
their own agenda through
their own strength.
Further on,
Matthew 5:
48, “Be perfect,
therefore, as your
heavenly Father is
perfect,”
summarizes Matthew 18:
1-5, 10 (Second Sunday):
“Who, then, is the
greatest in the kingdom
of heaven?” He called a
little child to
him, and placed the
child among them. And he
said: “Truly I tell
you, unless you change
and become like little
children, you will
never enter the kingdom
of heaven... See that
you do not despise one
of these little ones.
For I tell you that
their angels in heaven
always see the face of
my Father in heaven.”
And, Matthew 5:
13,
14: You are the salt of
the earth... You are the
light of the world.
A town built on a hill
cannot be hidden. (5th
Sunday), summarizes
Matthew 44-47: ... love
your enemies and pray
for those who persecute
you, that you may be
children of your Father
in heaven. He causes his
sun to rise on the evil
and the good, and sends
rain on the righteous
and the unrighteous. If
you love those who love
you, what reward will
you get? Are not even
the tax collectors doing
that? And if you greet
only your own people,
what are you doing more
than others? Do not
even pagans do that?
Indeed, the
messages
of these three past
Ordinary Time Sundays
were interconnected and
feeding into the Seventh
Sunday, a pit stop, as
we are about to enter
again another Lenten
Season in our lives.
Fr. Allan S.
Fenix
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SALT
AND LIGHT
“You are the
salt of the earth..”
Matthew 5:13.
Recently, I was
informed that the person
whom we considered in
our childhood as a youth
leader had died. Our
collective memory of him
is that he was a
charismatic person, who
would gather us during
our summer and Christmas
vacations, for outdoor
activities. Our
childhood was very
memorable because of
him.
For the last
night of vigil, I
brought with me 15
rosaries. Vigils for the
dead nowadays are no
longer solemn. It is no
longer mourning but
festive. With the
introduction of the
videoke sound system,
they have become one big
loud entertainment and
drinking party.
While on our
way to the vigil, I
started telling my
companions what we were
about to do. I started
assigning who would pray
a particular mystery. I
was surprised when one
of my companions, one
who even graduated from
a Catholic school, told
me that she was no
longer “into it.” She
had given up on her
faith and religion. The
other one also told me
that her family just
prayed the rosary daily
during the pandemic, but
stopped it when it
waned.
At the vigil, I
distributed the rosaries
and invited those who
were not yet drunk to
pray with us. While we
were praying the rosary,
I noticed that most do
not really know how to
use it. They were just
clutching the rosaries
in their hands. They
could not pray the
rosary with us orally.
From this
experience, I came to
see that the family
rosary habit we do every
Friday before the Sacred
Heart of Jesus, and on
Wednesdays before the
Black Nazarene, was like
an heirloom. It was an
intangible treasure
etched in our hearts. If
the habit is not
inculcated early on in
life, it is so hard to
forge it in someone,
especially with all the
modern distractions
nowadays.
You are the
salt of the earth.
After praying
the rosary, I invited
the family members to
pray with me the Liturgy
for the Dead. Then, I
let the gathered vigilantes
offer before the coffin,
the three bottles of
wine, and six bottles of
mineral water, I had
brought with me. I also
put on the coffin a
small Sto. Nino medal
and gave the widow a
small amount.
You are the
salt of the earth.
We did all of
this simple rite, right
in the very presence of
the loud drinking crowd
who also came for the
vigil.
You are the
light of the world...In
the same way, let your
light shine before
others, so that they may
see your good works and
give glory to your
Father in heaven.
(Matthew 5:16).
After a month
long of incessant gloom
and rain, the sun shone
bright and big on a
first Friday. To make
the day very meaningful
to the Sacred Heart of
Jesus, I again gathered
some rosaries and took a
walk in a mall nearby.
At first, I felt a bit
of reluctance but tried
offering them to guards
and clerks I often
encounter over there.
They were delighted to
get one.
The highlight
of the day was when I
struck up a conversation
with a salesperson. I
was just trying to
haggle the price of a
Japanese bike they were
selling, though I wasn't
really interested in it,
as I already have four
of them.
During our
exchange, I came to know
that the store owner was
from our hometown, and
our father, when he was
still alive used to have
business transactions
with their family.
We exchanged
some news about each
other's families. She
also invited me to
attend the regular
gathering at a nearby
restaurant of our common
Chinese family name.
Did all of this
happen because earlier I
was praying for the soul
of our father? I told
him how I missed him so
much, and to please
respond, if he ever
hears me. Was that
really an indirect
tangible response from
our father?
The day ended
when I was going to
sleep with the
transistor radio by my
side, listening to the
evening news. It was
followed by the
recitation of the
rosary. It was a
recorded recitation but
very meditative. People
were taking their time
and not in a hurry.
You are the
salt of the earth... You
are the light of the
world.
Fr. Allan S.
Fenix
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HEAVEN
What is the
relevance of the
Beatitudes in our
present world, where we
experience the rapid
pace of inflation,
erratic weather, and
shortages of goods
amidst abundance?
For
existentialists, what is
important is the
present, the NOW. For
them, what the
Beatitudes taught is
very futuristic. It is
something not on their
horizon. So, to practice
it in the face of the
worldly standard is to
be a loser. Who wants to
be one?
Let's go
through them one by one.
Blessed are the
meek. For they will
inherit the earth. To
inherit a piece of land
is a very attractive
prospect to anyone. This
is even a very big issue
among families. Many
conflicts arise from the
division of properties.
Many kill each other.
To be meek is
to be in the state of
not being provoked
easily by an enemy or
oppressor. It is to be
gentle in the midst of a
revenge-based world. To
trust in God to direct
the outcome of events.
To exercise patience in
the face of adversity.
Not to get envious nor
retaliate. To latch on
to God's provision and
plan for our lives.
Easier said
than done, isn't it? If
we are meek, things will
be taken away from us by
force. People will abuse
us. We will end up in
the streets. To be in
the streets is to be
living on the earth like
the homeless and street
people. Thus, we will
descend on to the other
three Beatitudes. We
will be a recipient. An
entitled recipient of
what? Comfort,
Righteousness, Mercy.
1 Blessed are
those who mourn. They
will be comforted.
2 Blessed are
those who hunger and
thirst for
righteousness. They will
be filled.
3 Blessed are
the merciful. They will
receive mercy.
Thus, they earn
the title as
peacemakers. Blessed are
the peacemakers. For
they will be called
children of God. During
elections, politicians
exploit them with hand
outs in exchange for
their precious votes.
During the Christmas
seasons, cause-oriented
and civic groups look to
them for their gift
giving and giveaways.
To be meek,
merciful and a
peacemaker is to possess
the virtue of delayed
gratification or self
control. It is the
ability to delay an
impulse for an immediate
reward to receive a more
favorable reward at a
later time.
The reward is
the kingdom of heaven.
The kingdom of heaven is
ours provided we are
poor in spirit,
persecuted for
righteousness and with a
pure heart.
To be blessed
is not to be less nor
least but, rather, it is
to be Bountifully Loaded
with Extraordinary
Spiritual Sanctity for
the Eternal Destination
– HEAVEN!
Fr. Allan S.
Fenix
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BOATS
AND NETS
...the time has
come: you must wake up
now: our salvation is
even nearer than it was
when we were converted.
The night is almost
over, it will be
daylight soon – let us
give up all the things
we prefer to do under
cover of the dark; let
us arm ourselves and
appear in the light. Let
us live decently as
people do in the
daytime: no drunken
orgies, no promiscuity
or pretentiousness, and
no wrangling or
jealousy. Let your armor
be the Lord Jesus
Christ; forget about
satisfying your bodies
with all their cravings.
(Romans 13:11-14).
During the
Advent season, we
repeatedly heard John
the Baptist shouting:
“Prepare the way of the
Lord! Make straight his
paths.” And now, Jesus
is here saying; “Repent,
for the kingdom of
heaven has come near.”
He then called his first
apostles who were fisher
folks: Simon and Andrew,
James and John. As he
was walking by the sea
of Galilee he saw two
brothers, Simon, who was
called Peter, and his
brother Andrew; they
were making a cast in
the lake with their net,
for they were fishermen.
And he said to them,
'Follow me and I will
make you fishers of
men.' And they left
their nets at once and
followed him.
Of all people,
why fisher folks?
They are tried
and tested in hard work.
How many of us can work
all through the night
without the assurance of
an assured catch? All
they have in abundance
is hope. Hope of a great
catch from the wild sea.
Going on from
there he saw another
pair of brothers, James
and John, sons of
Zebedee, mending their
nets, and he called
them. At once, they left
the boat and their
father, and they
followed him.
Fisher folks
pray a lot. Like the
three wise men guided by
a star to the manger,
they look up to the
heavens for their
directions back home to
their loved ones. This
is their way of adoring.
The heavens are their
true guide. When they
find themselves in the
middle of the sea in bad
weather, they look
through the dark clouds
and howling winds to the
sky, for that littlest
light to bring them back
to their families alive.
He went round
the whole of Galilee
teaching in their
synagogues, proclaiming
the Good News of the
kingdom, and curing all
kinds of diseases and
sickness among the
people.
They are loud.
Observe fisher folk as
they go around selling
their catch. They shout
loudly to call attention
and be heard.
A good leader
is he who knows how to
delegate duties and
responsibilities. This
was what Jesus did, and
he thought it wise to
call and gather Fisher
folks. It was a
successful call, as they
responded by leaving
their nets, boats and
loved ones.
We are also
called by Jesus to be
his disciples, for he
knows we are as
hardworking, prayerful
and loud as the first
apostles were.
Fr. Allan S.
Fenix
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A
NEW VERSION
The disciples
approached Jesus and
said, “Who is the
greatest in the kingdom
of heaven?” He called a
child over, placed it in
their midst, and said,
“Amen, I say to you,
unless you turn and
become like children,
you will not enter the
kingdom of heaven.”
(Matthew 18:1-5, 10).
Over two weeks
ago, last December 28,
we celebrated the Holy
Innocents. It was the
slaughter of two-year
old males and below by
King Herod. It was also
a surprising coincidence
that on that same day,
someone came knocking on
the confessional room to
remit four abortions she
had in her younger
years. According to her,
at that time, she was
not ready to take on the
responsibility of being
a good parent to them.
Looking at her, I
decided to give her the
Holy Anointing as she
was both physically and
psychologically sick.
I, like many
around, have never
experienced being a
parent to a child, but I
cannot forget what my
sibling shared to me
about having a child.
According to him, it was
life changing. When he
first held his infant
child in his arms and
looked at her eyes
something inexplicable
happened inside of him.
It is like looking at a
new version of yourself.
We have the
feast of the Sto.
Nino in the early
part of the year to
remind us that the year
that has just started is
a new version of time.
It is no longer the old
version of the past, nor
the future one of
tomorrow. This year is a
new version of the
present.
Though coming
from one and the same
parents, each child in
the family is unique due
to individual
differences. It is also
in the same way that,
though coming from one
and the same God, each
year is also dissimilar
as it has its own
individual differences.
Just as the
word Santo Nino
has 9 letters and it
takes 9 months in the
womb for a child to be
born, there are also 9
practical ways to simply
follow to make this
year, and all the coming
years, unique and
individually different.
Serve
Amicably
Nine
Times
Over
Now
Inside
aNd
Out
Our life is a
life of service. Serve
the Lord with gladness.
With a smile. Make the
day for others. To serve
others is to serve God.
He himself said; “For as
long as you have done
this to the least of my
brethren, you have done
it for me.”
Nine times over
now inside and out. To
give and not count the
cost. Let us avoid
counting. Let us just
keep on serving. As Luke
17:10 say it: “So you
also, when you have done
everything you were told
to do, should say, 'We
are unworthy servants;
we have only done our
duty.'”
Fr. Allan S.
Fenix
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A
SNAKE IN EVERY FOREST
Something
unusual happened to me
today while celebrating
the mass at a female
religious convent.
The gospel
reading was from Mark 1:
40-45, about the cure of
a leper when Jesus told
him, “Go and show
yourself to the priest
and offer for your cure
what Moses prescribed.”
I was already
reading the offertory
prayer when the sisters
in front of me started
to panic and approached
the altar table. It
turned out that a small,
baby snake had exited
from the front altar
area, which I had not
noticed, as I was facing
them.
They hit the
small, baby snake with a
broom and swept it out
with a dust pan.
After the mass,
the sisters told me that
this was the first time
during the celebration
of a mass, that a snake
had appeared in that
chapel. To which I
responded that if it is
true that there is a
snake in every forest,
there is also one even
in a religious convent.
Fr. Allan S.
Fenix
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STAR
OFFERING
Last Sunday,
January 1, the New Year,
with the visit of the
shepherds at the manger,
it was the Liturgy of
the Word. Now, this
Epiphany Sunday, with
the magi from the east,
it is the Offertory.
When Jesus was
born in Bethlehem of
Judea, in the days of
King Herod, behold magi
from the east arrived in
Jerusalem... and on
entering the house they
saw the child with Mary
his mother. They
prostrated themselves
and did him homage. Then
they opened their
treasures and offered
him gifts of gold,
frankincense, and myrrh.
(Matthew 2: 1, 11).
How I wish
Christmas, the happiest
time of the year,
wouldn't end. One of our
best traits, as a
people, is that we tend
to extend the time of
our Christmas
decorations until the
New Year and beyond.
Unlike in other
cultures, where they are
immediately taken down
just a day or two after
Christmas day. Fresh
Christmas trees are seen
lying by the roadsides,
and still colorful
lanterns in the trash.
So, the day before the
Epiphany Sunday, I woke
up so early and took a
last picture of our
lighted Christmas tree
and manger. Since we are
back once again to the
Ordinary Time, it will
all be dismantled and
kept in the stockroom
ready for the coming
Advent and Christmas
seasons.
Facing the
manger, like the magi
from the east, I offered
to the infant Jesus the
gifts of gold,
frankincense and myrrh.
GOLD. A yellow
metallic element that
occurs naturally in pure
form and is used
especially in coins,
jewelry and electronics.
For me, GOLD is
the God of Old. I
offered to him all the 9
days and more of our
evening and dawn
Aguinaldo masses. Most
were on vacation. So, it
was a breeze for many to
attend the entirety of
the novenario.
However, there were
those who really had to
sacrifice, and
experience hardships and
difficulties, just to
come for the evening or
early morning mass, what
with all the cold, rain
and distance. So, even
if we did not complete
it, whether one was only
able to attend one, two,
three, or all nine
masses, this was our
personal gold that we
offered to the infant
Jesus in the manger.
FRANKINCENSE. A
fragrant gum resin from
trees of a genus in
Somalia and southern
coastal Arabia, that is
an important incense
resin and has long been
used in religious rites,
perfumery and embalming.
Christmas,
indeed, is the happiest
time of the year. We
have Christmas cheers
all around. Whether
belonging to a religious
or civic group, many
went to the prisons, the
mental institutions, the
hospitals, orphanages...
to give Christmas
cheers. There are also
those who have a
community feeding and
gift giving. If, in
case, we don't belong to
any religious or civic
groups and are just
alone, the very act of
reaching out to others
and greeting them with a
"Merry Christmas" or a
"Happy Holidays!" is
enough. It is your gift
of frankincense to the
infant Jesus lying in
the manger.
MYRRH. A
yellowish-brown to
reddish-brown aromatic
gum resin with a bitter,
slightly pungent taste,
obtained from a tree of
eastern Africa and
Arabia.
Christmas is
the happiest time of the
year. However, amidst
the jubilations and
parties, we might have
forgotten our dead loved
ones.
For me, I made
picture posters from
scratch and visited our
Archdiocesan clergy
cemetery and put them
there. I made one for a
classmate, for those
coming from our hometown
and for the rest of my
brother-priests. I also
visited my dead loved
ones and cleaned their
headstones. And, of
course, offered prayers
for their eternal
repose.
Christmas is
everyday. So, we need
not stop offering our
own gold, frankincense
and myrrh, but should
continually do it. The
accumulation of our
spiritual merits, the
STAR, will again be our
offering the next
Epiphany Sunday.
HAPPY THREE
KINGS!
Fr. Allan S.
Fenix
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LITURGY
OF
THE WORD
I am the good
shepherd. The good
shepherd lays down his
life for the sheep.
(John 10: 11).
Everything
which happened during
that first Christmas
night foretold the
things to come in Jesus'
life.
When they saw
this, they made known
the message that had
been told them about
this child. All who
heard it were amazed by
what had been told them
by the shepherds. (Luke
2: 17-18).
The first ones
to reach the manger were
the shepherds; a
harbinger to Jesus'
mission and role later
in his active life. He
is the son of a
carpenter, but he will
be the shepherd of his
people. He is indeed the
good shepherd who enters
by the gate. The gate
being the Blessed Virgin
Mary, one of whose
titles is, “Our Lady of
the Gate” – Nuestra
Senora de la Porteria.
And Mary kept
all these things,
reflecting on them in
her HEART. When eight
days were completed for
his circumcision, he was
named Jesus, the name
given him by the angel
before he was conceived
in the WOMB. (Luke 2:
19, 21).
The HEART and
WOMB of Mary were the
gate where Jesus, the
Good Shepherd entered.
The shepherds
went in haste to
Bethlehem and found Mary
and Joseph, and the
infant lying in the
manger. (Luke 2: 16).
Lying in a
manger. A manger is
described as a long open
box from which horses or
cattle feed. With Jesus
now with us, we will no
longer go hungry or be
famished. For he
himself, with his body
and blood, will feed us.
We get sick from the
various forms of cancer
nowadays, as we
patronize
chemically-induced
nourishment. That food
was not him, but of some
other. We did not look
for him to satiate, us
but for some other,
artificial foods.
During the last
supper, he himself said:
And he took
bread, gave thanks and
broke it, and gave it to
them, saying, "This is
my body given for you;
do this in remembrance
of me." In the same way,
after supper He took the
cup saying, "the cup is
the new covenant in my
blood, which is poured
out for you." (Luke 22:
19-20).
Then the
shepherds returned,
glorifying and praising
God for all they had
HEARD and SEEN, just as
it had been TOLD to
them. (Luke 2: 20).
Heard and seen.
The first part of the
holy mass, the Liturgy
of the Word, was done in
the manger that first
Christmas with the
shepherds being the
first mass attendants.
The second part, the
Liturgy of the
Eucharist, will be done
during the Last Supper
with his apostles, and
eventually during his
passion, crucifixion and
resurrection.
From hereon,
everything is still
fluid and ongoing. This
is our journey of faith
from the Liturgy of the
Word to the Liturgy of
the Eucharist. Be there
and watch for it!
Fr. Allan S.
Fenix
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